Michael Russ A. Abar

“Jesus said to her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die.’”

John 11:25–26

It’s been three years since we said goodbye to our beloved brother, Michael, yet not a day goes by that we don’t think of him. Though time has moved forward, the love and memories he left behind remain deeply etched in our hearts.

Michael was the youngest of seven siblings — the heart of our family — whose laughter and light brightened every moment we shared. He was a loving partner to Sheilla and a devoted father to their children, Symon, Sebastian, and Quinn, who continue to carry his spirit and warmth in their smiles.

A man of many passions, Michael found joy in rock music, motorcycles, and spontaneous road trips. He was a talented musician and band member who never missed an Oktoberfest. His music, humor, and charm left a lasting mark on everyone who knew him. He also loved indie films, and his sharp wit and easy laughter made him a loyal and unforgettable friend.

He was intelligent, kind, and full of life — a man who made people feel seen and loved. Though we miss him deeply, we take comfort in knowing he is now reunited with our mother in heaven, watching over us with that same familiar smile.

We will forever cherish his memory and honor his life by taking care of the family he loved so dearly. His song may have ended, but its melody lives on in all of us.